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Ok look people. Word of advice... never judge someone's relationship unless you're in it. I realized this some months ago when my girlfriend and I had some issues to work out and everyone had an opinion on it but when they had something going on with a relationship of their own I had my opinions. No matter how much you question someone on why they are with someone and tell them not to be, you'll never understand why they stay. Maybe that means its none of your concern. I stopped judging other people relationships because I hate it being done to mine. NO ONE can possibly understand why I love Lauren but me. Lauren doesn't even know why I love her so much and I could write a "4 page letter" to her explaining it but she still wouldn't feel what i feel everyday.

My auntie was with her girlfriend for 10 years! No one knew why she stayed with her, in their eyes, her gf had so many issues to them... yeah i thought she was a bit too anti-social but she made my auntie happy. There was something about that woman that my aunt loved and no one can and ever will understand what is it but her. When my brother was going out with his girlfriend his freshman year I COULD NOT understand what it was about that girl that he liked so much. It was just something about her that i didnt like for no reason. As his sister, ya nigga, my opinion matters, but it wasn't my place to judge them. As long as he was happy that should've been all that mattered and his opinion on who I date matters but again, he wouldnt understand how I feel about them.

Unless you are on the phone when we talk, texting the text we ...text (lol) or just living the way we live you wouldnt know.

The only time I will question why someone is with someone else is when they are constantly lied to or if they're name is Rhianna... some people don't think I should be with Lauren because she of lies she could be capable of...but everyone is capable of lying, hell, everyone lies. I love Lauren and I trust her. If we dont work out this time then thats on me, but leave it up to me to find out. You wont understand why unless your either Lauren or Me!

Love is blind and I believe EVERYTHING happens for a reason. If God didnt want Lauren in my life then she wouldnt be here, but she is. People either come into your life for a reason, a season or a life time. So remember that next time your criticizing someones love life...think about how u felt when some was giving you shit about yours...how much u were thinkin in your head... "STFU"